I suggested things. I told them about the the issues I saw on PT forums. They don't seem to listen to me. One would think start with the cheaper fix and progress. I asked them to check the relays at the start. They said the computer didn't show it was fuses or relays. I them told them about the PCM update. Maybe I will suggest again relays, fuses . Should I also try to get them to rule out thermostat? Maybe they don't listen to me because I am a woman?

Again thanks for all your input. I get more input from you than I do the dealership.