[soonercruiser]

1. Send me an e-mail, and I will send you the "Homelink" pages copied to jpeg images..... Or, PDF files, at your option.
2. Not sure what you are saying about starting? Yes, you likely have a digital security code in most model's keyfobs. But, as long as the key is in the ignition, you should be good to go. Yes, if it's a standard tranny like my soonercruiser, you must have the clutch pushed in all the way before turning the key will engage the starter.
**But, most importantly I have discovered on these forums - the fuel pump is in the bottom of the tank. You should turn the key part way over, and listen for the whirring sound of the pump priming, before turning the key all the way over to start. And ,the fuel sensor and pump are a PITA to get to and fix. The pump is actually cooled by the fuel, and will live longer if you don't let your tank get below 1/4.
Also, try new batteries in your keyfob. And, even disconnect your negative battery cable, wait a few minutes and see if that helps. (resets the computer, and seem to fix a multitute of small problems)